I gave one of my best life advices today during a training session. I told my client, “Everything you do from here on out. . . do it for yourself.”
This doesn’t mean you can’t go around donating to charity, buying girl scout cookies to support little ones, or helping old ladies across the street. However, when you have people in your life that can literally turn your insides into a mosh-pit of anger or disdain, I’d say you can just drop the bullshit and go your own way. All you need to do is know your name and walk away.
This shit will eat you alive though. You’ll literally go home, sit at the computer and think of a Facebook status that will show those suckers who’s boss. You come up with some witty line telling the world how what goes around comes around and then you quote some Justin Timberlake lyric.
You just lost. You stooped to their level. Quote this line instead by Tupac.
“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over analyzing a situation, trying to put the pieces back together, justifying what could’ve or would’ve happened or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.”